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Wait or Eat? Self-Other Differences in a Commonly Held Food Norm

Paley, A., Scopelliti, I. ORCID: 0000-0001-6712-5332 & Steinmetz, J. ORCID: 0000-0003-3299-4858 (2025). Wait or Eat? Self-Other Differences in a Commonly Held Food Norm. Appetite, 212, article number 108021. doi: 10.1016/j.appet.2025.108021

Abstract

This research examines a widespread food norm: waiting to eat until everyone in a dining party has received their food. Six experiments (total N = 1,907) examine how individuals perceive and respond to this norm and reveal a consistent self-other difference in anticipated norm adherence. Participants reported greater expected norm adherence from themselves compared to others (Studies 1a, 2a, 3-4). This self-other difference is driven by a differential perception of the psychological costs and benefits of eating immediately versus waiting, which are more pronounced for the self than for others (Studies 2a-2b). We tested two interventions targeting this difference: taking the other person’s perspective partially reduced, but did not eliminate, the self-other difference (Study 3), while explicit encouragement from a dining companion to break the norm and begin eating, intended to remove social constraints, had no significant effect on the self-other difference (Study 4). These findings extend our understanding of food norms by demonstrating that the perceived psychological utility of norm adherence varies systematically between self and others.

Publication Type: Article
Additional Information: This is an open access article distributed under the terms of the Creative Commons CC-BY license, which permits unrestricted use, distribution, and reproduction in any medium, provided the original work is properly cited.
Publisher Keywords: Food norms; Self-other difference; Food consumption; Norm utility; Norm adherence; Perspective-taking
Subjects: B Philosophy. Psychology. Religion > BF Psychology
H Social Sciences > H Social Sciences (General)
Departments: Bayes Business School
Bayes Business School > Management
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